Relational well-being

WHY SUCH HIGH COTATION OF THE RELATIONAL WELL-BEING ?

The conclusion of the longest and longitudinal study on adults life and happiness which began in 1938 and finished recently in 2018 by the American Psychiatrist, Psychanalist, Zen Priest and Professor at Harvard Medical School, Dr Robert J. Waldinger is unequivocal:

“ Simply put, states Dr Waldinger, good relationships keeps us happy and healthy”.

In the same report, it is has been precised that neither richness, nor celebrity are not the main basis of the happiness, but only the good relationships between family’s members, society’s members, school maters and professional team members. Money, personal reputation and other factors of success comes only to contribute to good relationships which can culminate in friendships.

It has been also the conclusion of Dr Daniel Gilbert, the Harvard happiness expert in his report entitled: “ Relational Happiness: through recognition and redistribution: emotion and inequality”.

It is not necessary to stress on the friendship relations. This realization of mutual connection is the highest degree of good relationships, but this degree is very rare. E-NICE CENTER does not pretend to guide you towards holiness or heroism. It is already very difficult to realize simple everyday humanity; how should we ask to be a superman ? However, creating, keeping and developing good relationships always and elsewhere we are opens possibilities to know each others and to appreciate mutually.

This echoes also with the observations of Dr Henry Cloud in his famous book entitled:” The Laws of Happiness” when he notices that “ Happy people connect, …Happy people don’t compare themselves, …Happy people forgive”. It is also the ultimate conclusion of Rhonda BYRNE in its very tasteful moral formula which values many books when he claims, like a superman that:” the real secret to life and happiness lies in the force called the Law of Attraction”.

E-NICE CENTER would be happy if, through the following auto-suggestion exercise generated or to be generated by the 5Ws+H knowledge method, his and her online visitors reach one day to connect with their closest people they meet. It is the certain way to the sublimate relationships, the probable wake towards our dream of the lost universal brotherhood.